Women who grew up without a father are here!!

Women who grew up without a father are here!!

25 Tough Situations Only Women Who Grow Up Without a Father Will Understand

Fatherless women never grow up. Father’s love is the biggest void in them. They are women who are weaker, stronger and more difficult than all other people in life.

1. They are thrown into life as defenseless as a kitten.

1. Hayata bir kedi yavrusu kadar savunmasız atılmışlardır.

No matter how old you were when you first lost your father, you feel like a little girl.

2. Fatherless women fear separation. They mourn excessively after the departed.

2. Babasız kadınlar ayrılıktan korkarlar. Gidenin ardından haddinden fazla yas tutarlar.

3. Since they couldn’t grow up to be their father’s princess, they look for their father in every man they love.

3. Babasının prensesi olarak büyüyemedikleri için, sevdikleri her adamda babalarını ararlar.

4. On Father’s Day, they do not have a father to get up early and serve the table they have prepared for hours.

4. Babalar günününde onlar için erken kalkıp, saatlerce hazırladıkları sofrayı sunacakları bir babaları yoktur.

Even the smallest recipes that they have just learned from their mother, girls try their best for their father. And of course, there are those who do not know this at all.

5. They don’t have a knight who can say “If you upset him, you’re done” for the man they will marry.

5. Evlenecekleri adam için "Onu üzersen bittin" cümlesini kurabilecek bir şövalyeleri yoktur.

Likewise, there is no king who delivers his only princess, whom he sees in a wedding dress and cries and hugs, to a prince. After all, life has never been a fairy tale…

6. There is no one behind them who takes their whim.

And so it doesn’t take long for them to learn to stay strong. What’s the use of being spoiled when you can’t stand it? Me too, being strong is tiring sometimes.

7. It is not their fathers who guide their future, but what they see and experience.

7. Geleceklerini yönlendiren babaları değil, gördükleri ve yaşadıklarıdır.

Sometimes they get carried away, and sometimes they learn to live like men because they don’t have a protector, because they have to.

8. Since there is no one who loves them unconditionally, there is always a wound in their hearts that does not dry out.

8. Kendilerini koşulsuz seven birinin varlığı olmadığı için kalplerinde kurumayan bir yara vardır hep.

What ointment could it be anyway?

9. They are deprived of their first love.

9. İlk aşklarından mahrumdurlar.

They do not have a father, a guide, who can teach them about life, introduce men, and protect them from everyone. It’s always missing a part of it.

10. For some, it’s not easy to crush a girl without a father.

10. Bazıları için babası olmayan kızı ezmekten kolayı yoktur.

Especially in some places, the name of the girl who does not have a father comes out in the slightest incident. Because they know that they don’t have a hero behind them who can get his head cleaned by rubbing his head.

11. Folk songs, songs, movies, etc., in which the father is mentioned, hurt 1000 times more.

11. İçinde baba geçen türküler, şarkılar, filmler vs her şey 1000 kat daha fazla acı verir.

12. Some words are missing, they do not fill their hearts.

12. Bazı kelimeler eksiktir, doldurmaz yüreklerini.

Idioms such as father’s daughter, father’s hearth cannot find their full meaning for those women.

13. Because they know that there is no one who can do their best for them, they take all the spiritual burden on their own. That’s why it always hurts, depression is inseparable.

14. Life is a table for wolves for them.

14. Hayat onlar için tam bir kurtlar sofrasıdır.

15. They know very well that they should not fully trust anyone. That’s why they feel so lonely.

15. Kimseye tam olarak güvenmemeleri gerektiğini çok iyi bilirler. Bu yüzden çok yalnız hissederler.

16. They become aggressive at school, at work, and in human relations.

16. Okulda, iş hayatlarında ve insan ilişkilerinde agresif olurlar.

17. They get sad rather than happy at their success. Because they don’t have a father to share with them, to be proud of them.

17. Başarılarında sevinmek yerine üzülürler. Çünkü paylaşacak, onlarla gurur duyabilecek babaları yanlarında yoktur.

According to studies, the period when girls need their fathers most is school age.

19. They learn about authority and male-female relationships, on their own, half way, wrongly and incompletely. They continue to seek the truth and the whole throughout their lives.

19. Otoriteyi ve kadın-erkek ilişkilerini, kendi başlarına yarım yamalak, yanlış ve eksik öğrenirler. Doğruyu ve tamı hayatları boyunca aramaya devam ederler.

20. They have little confidence in men, but when they do, they trust them fully. They fall in love with the man they see as their father! 

That's why we like mature men more.
That’s why we like mature men more.

21. Not exactly a real laugh on their face.

21. Tam olarak gerçek bir kahkaha yüzlerine yerleşmemiştir.

THE HARDEST PART

22. Fatherless women have to witness their mother’s weakness. Their hearts are broken by this situation more than fatherlessness.

22. Babasız kadınlar, annelerinin güçsüzlüklerine şahit olmak zorundadırlar. Kalpleri bu duruma babasızlıktan daha çok kırılır.

Having to stay strong has never been this hard

23. They cannot sleep peacefully next to anyone, but they never want to be alone either.

23. Kimsenin yanında sonsuz bir huzurla uyuyamazlar ama asla yalnız kalmak da istemezler.

24. They always question themselves because they are alone, but every time they get up and start over.

24. Yalnız kaldıklarından hep kendilerini sorgularlar ama her seferinde kalkıp yeniden başlarlar.

25. Fatherless girls are no longer their father’s princesses. They are tearful princesses.

25. Babasız kızlar artık babalarının prensesi değillerdir. Gözü yaşlı prenseslerdir.

Have you ever had your father die?

mine died once i went blind

They washed and took

I didn’t expect it from my father, I was blind.

                                                                                                        Cemal Süreyya

What about those who are absent while they are there????

Source: https://onedio.com

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